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 The holiday season is upon us, and while it is a time of joy and celebration, it can also be a bittersweet reminder of those we have lost too soon. When our loved ones transition from this earth before their time, the holidays can feel different, almost incomplete. 

The absence of their presence leaves an indescribable void in our hearts. We find ourselves reminiscing about the memories we shared, the laughter, and the love that once filled our homes during this festive time. The traditions we once held dear may now feel like a painful reminder of what we have lost.

 The holiday cheer that once came so effortlessly now requires a conscious effort to summon. But amidst the grief and longing, it is crucial to remember that we must remain thankful for the present. We must cherish the moments we have with the ones who are still here, the ones who bring light into our lives. It is in their presence that we find solace and strength to navigate through the holiday season. Although our loved ones may no longer be physically with us, their spirit lives on in our hearts. 

They have left an indelible mark on our lives, and their love continues to guide us, even in their absence. We can honor their memory by keeping their traditions alive, sharing stories about them, and finding ways to include them in our celebrations. It is also essential to lean on our support systems during this time. 

Surrounding ourselves with family and friends who understand our grief can provide comfort and a sense of belonging. Sharing our feelings and memories can help us heal and find solace in the midst of the holiday chaos. While the holidays may never be the same without our loved ones, we can find solace in the fact that they would want us to continue living our lives to the fullest. They would want us to find joy in the present, to create new memories, and to cherish the time we have with those who are still here. So, as we navigate through this holiday season, let us remember to be grateful for the present. 


Let us honor the memories of our loved ones by embracing the love and joy that still surrounds us. And let us find comfort in knowing that their spirits will forever be a part of our holiday celebrations, guiding us through the bittersweet moments and reminding us to cherish every precious moment we have with those we hold dear.



Warm Regards, 
Monica Watts-Franciosa 

AADP Board Certified CHHP 
NACBT Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapist |USIDHR Human Rights Consultant | NAADC Cert. Addiction Counselor | NBSTA CST ret. 


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