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Hots For Moms with Tots

 Attraction is a complex phenomenon and can vary greatly from person to person. You've perhaps noticed since becoming a mother you've also captured the interest of more men. 

Here are some reasons  why some men might be more attracted to you now as a single mother: 

 1. Maturity: Becoming a mother often brings about a level of maturity and responsibility that can be very attractive. Some men might be drawn to the strength and independence that comes with being a single mother. 

 2. Nurturing Nature: Motherhood often brings out a nurturing side in women. This can be very appealing to men, especially those who are looking for a long-term relationship. 

 3. Stability: If you're managing to raise a child on your own, it shows that you're stable and capable. This can be a very attractive quality. 

 4. Shared Interests: If the men in question are also parents, they might feel a stronger connection to you now that you have shared experiences. 

 5. Confidence: The experience of motherhood can often boost a woman's confidence, which is a universally attractive trait. 

 6. Desire to Help: Some men might feel a protective instinct or a desire to step in and help, which can translate into attraction. 

 Remember, everyone's preferences and attractions are different. These are just a few possible explanations, and it could be a combination of factors or something entirely different.


Monica Watts-Franciosa 

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