MOC Talks

  The holiday season is upon us, and while it is a time of joy and celebration, it can also be a bittersweet reminder of those we have lost too soon. When our loved ones transition from this earth before their time, the holidays can feel different, almost incomplete.  The absence of their presence leaves an indescribable void in our hearts. We find ourselves reminiscing about the memories we shared, the laughter, and the love that once filled our homes during this festive time. The traditions we once held dear may now feel like a painful reminder of what we have lost.  The holiday cheer that once came so effortlessly now requires a conscious effort to summon. But amidst the grief and longing, it is crucial to remember that we must remain thankful for the present. We must cherish the moments we have with the ones who are still here, the ones who bring light into our lives. It is in their presence that we find solace and strength to navigate through the holiday season. Alth...

 N avigating unfamiliar social and healthcare systems can be a daunting task, especially for black women who often face unique challenges and disparities.  While my experience hasn't been perfect, I feel incredibly blessed to have had a supportive team of professionals in my life. From insurance coordinators to my son's Ppec staff, these individuals have made a significant difference in our journey. I am filled with gratitude for the exceptional care and support they have provided. It is my hope that other mothers around the world can have a similar experience.  I want to share my story and knowledge to help others learn how to navigate these systems effectively and have a positive experience. Being an advocate for your child is crucial. It means not settling for mediocre care and always striving for the best. While perfection may be unattainable, advocating for your child's needs ensures they receive the highest quality of care possible. I believe that by sharing my expe...

  Attraction is a complex phenomenon and can vary greatly from person to person. You've perhaps noticed since becoming a mother you've also captured the interest of more men.  Here are some reasons  why some men might be more attracted to you now as a single mother:   1. Maturity: Becoming a mother often brings about a level of maturity and responsibility that can be very attractive. Some men might be drawn to the strength and independence that comes with being a single mother.   2. Nurturing Nature: Motherhood often brings out a nurturing side in women. This can be very appealing to men, especially those who are looking for a long-term relationship.   3. Stability: If you're managing to raise a child on your own, it shows that you're stable and capable. This can be a very attractive quality.   4. Shared Interests: If the men in question are also parents, they might feel a stronger connection to you now that you have shared experien...

  Recently, my son had an encounter with a black male nurse during his hospital visit. As a parent, I was excited about the opportunity for my  medical complex son whom constantly followed by various of medical professionals weekly , to witness someone who looked like him in a familiar profession.   I wanted this experience to serve as an inspiration, a moment where my son could see himself represented in the medical field. However, I must admit that I was left disappointed by the nurse's behavior and attitude. Instead of embodying the role model standard I had hoped for, he fell short. His lack of empathy and professionalism left a bitter taste in my mouth. I understand that everyone has their off days, and I do not wish to generalize or stereotype based on this one encounter. However, it is disheartening when someone who could have been a source of inspirational sparks similar to those others whom spark my son talented drum playing at 10 months  old , instead ...